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I unfollowed you. (A Love Letter)

Despite it’s title, this is a love letter.  To you.

You see, love letters are supposed to start with confessions, so here goes: I unfollowed you.

To be fair, I unfollowed everybody.  There doesn’t seem to be an easy way to add you back without re-following as you comment.

I know you have questions.

Why did I do it? I didn’t do it on purpose.  How did it happen? I have no idea.  Why do I hyphenate re-follow but not unfollow? I have no idea, but at least I’m consistent.

We could do Q&A all day (and hey, one day we might), but for now the point is… I miss you.

Even though it’s been only a day, and I don’t even know if you’ve posted anything, I miss you.  Please send me an email, or comment with all your various blogs, or do something so that I can find you again because I love you to the moon and back.

Yes, you, my lovely reader.

It is your friendship that encourages me to write, and your readership that pushes me to write something worth reading.

Just last weekend, the lovely editors at the Trifecta Writing Challenge picked my piece, Hollow-Boned, as the second place winner.

On the 1st, WordPress picked my apocalyptic short story, An Unwashed Future, to be Freshly Pressed.  It’s my second Pressed honor– the last one being an entirely different sort of thing.

Thank you to the Powers-That-Be for those recognitions!

I am in awe of these honors because spotlights often bring new friends into our cozy circle.  Still, though, I am more amazed when I hear from you.  You aren’t grading my post on grammar or its ability to reach a large audience.  You aren’t required to sift through entries.

No, you’ve chosen to read my post.  If you comment or like, your thoughts are based on whether or not it moves you in some way.  The simplicity and honesty of that readership moves me.

“Gratitude is happiness doubled by wonder.”
– G.K. Chesterton

None of those recognitions would have happened, or would have mattered, without you.   You are wondrous, frightfully wondrous.

My happiness is doubled by you.

So just in case you forgot, or just in case you’re new here,  I’ll speak plainly for the important part:
I am grateful for you, and I love you to the moon and back.

Much love,
Rara

P.S. – As always, if you have any suggestions, questions, or constructive criticisms, send them my way.  If you need a favor, or have a request, just ask.  If there’s anything I can do to double your happiness, I’d love to help.  You can always contact me here or direct to my email, rarasaurdinosaur@gmail.com.

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263 thoughts on “I unfollowed you. (A Love Letter)

  1. Oops! that’s what you get for hitting buttons accidentally on purpose. I’m surprised I haven’t done something like this yet. I suppose I should just give it some time.

  2. Hi! I saw I lost a follower and felt it like a punch to the stomach! The truth is I have been working so much I haven’t had time to blog much recently and took it as something I deserved, however hurt I felt. I can’t imagine you lose followers very often, this is such a nice place to visit. Congratulations on your well deserved recognition. James

  3. I don’t think you were following me but I’d be really annoyed if that happened to me – I’d never find them all again. On the plus side, thanks to these comments I’m now following some great blogs that you follow!

  4. Weird. I thought I just got a notice that said you followed me (or I just saw one an old one…I don’t know. Or maybe I dreamed the whole thing and you never followed me to begin with.).

    Anyway, congratulations on all your bloggy accomplishments! Your blog is fantastic!

    • :) Haha, yours is one of the first blogs on WordPress that I followed! If I ever got around to actually putting together a blogroll, yours would be on it for sure… I’m sorry for the notification confusion!

  5. I enjoyed that letter a lot. You have a good writing style, this may sound a little weird but it to me sounded like the sort of piece that somebody like Isaac Hayes or Barry White would open one of their ballads up with. That’s probably just me but its a feeling I couldn’t shake! I throughly enjoyed it either way though.

    If you have time any chance you could check out my blog and maybe give it a ‘follow’ if you enjoy anything that you read? Many thanks

  6. I don’t know how you do it Rara, but yours is the only blog I can’t un-follow or unfollow… you see I get all excited about other posters but then I find I’ve made a mistake and that I’m not really interested in fishing or origami and I drop them… but your blog is quite addictive – there must be something subliminal in it :) See how many comments you got this time! – Verity

    • I’m glad to have you around, V– you are awesome! :) (*begin subliminal message* Always come back to Rarasaur, she loves you. *end subliminal message*) :)

  7. I’m sorry that I don’t remember if you followed me or not. I know I follow you, and I would be honored to have you follow OR re-follow me. Congratulations on all your notoriety!

  8. Yay! It looks like your getting most or all of your connections back so you can re-follow! Love your blog! Hope you have a great week and get reconnected with your circle of bloggers.

    • Thanks Amanda! :) I’ve found 400, but I was following about 1600, so not quite there yet… but I’m still searching! Thank you for the good wishes and kind words! :D

  9. Oh no I would be so upset if that happened to me? I’ve deliberately chosen each of the people I follow based on reading many of their posts and deciding if I like them (because everyone has a bad post day so I never base it on one). Anyway – hope you get everyone back!!!

    • :) Thanks, Fiona… yep, I’m hoping to get everyone back. It’s hard for me to re-build because I honestly have no idea why I follow anyone. Sometimes I’m looking up something random, like bacon, which leads to a blog about Kevin Bacon, and links to a blogger who routinely plays 6 degrees of Bacon or some variation, and the next thing you know, I’m reading all their posts and crying over their cat getting sick. It’s fun, but it’s hard to backtrack my many moods and interests, haha!

  10. Sorry I don’t remember if you were following me either. I love reading your blog though. Congrats on the second Freshly Pressed!

    • It’s because I’m so stealthy. ;) And/or because I’m such a bad commentor, haha, but yes– I was following and I’ll follow once again! Thanks, Reva!

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  12. Having a bit of a weird time – guess I’m on the right kind of blog for that … as I was reading this post I realised you just followed my blog. It’s a real compliment.

  13. Wow, I loved this. Your hyphenation line was hilarious and made me laugh out loud. Just the kind of love letter I have always craved! Thank you! :) And congratulations on your many successes!

    • Thank you and I’m glad the hyphenation line made you laugh, haha– I felt the need to respond to the squiggly red lines under both my variations of the words! :) Thanks again!!

  14. I just found this. I don’t even remember how I found it. It was posted when I was in Myanmar and I put all those I follow on hold for a couple of weeks because of internet issues there. I knew I’d never be able to keep up, and didn’t want the stress of trying. So I never saw it at the time you posted it. Thank you for all you said.
    Sometimes I get so caught up in ego that I forget how important those I follow, and those who follow me, are to the health of my blog, how, as you say, you all inspire me to try to be better at it, how it would be nothing like it is without the inspiration I get from reading others, and the inspiration I get from knowing others care enough about what we write to want to read it. So thank you from the bottom of my heart for this reminder.
    Big cyber hugs
    Alison

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